Post #590001
2026-03-08 23:22 UTC
Replies (4)
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@Flamekebab@piefed.social 2026-03-08 23:56
Unfortunately I’ve very definitely had this problem many times in my life. I really don’t like to assume someone’s interested in me unless it’s far beyond obvious.
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@otp@sh.itjust.works 2026-03-09 00:05
This feels like “haha men stupid” and this is why I like it
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@blockheadjt@sh.itjust.works 2026-03-09 00:45
It’s putting all responsibility on others. Like, honey, use your words. Communicate. Don’t expect people to read your mind. If you set the expectation that you want people to guess how you’re feeling, then you’ll have to deal with the fallout of some wrong guesses. It’s easier to just make yourself clear.
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@SpikesOtherDog@ani.social 2026-03-09 10:57
2 things: It has provoked a lot of great conversation, if you haven’t come back to read it. I’m approaching 20 years and very much still need my wife to tell me how she’s feeling. My wife appears to be in tune emotionally and often is right, but from my perspective sometimes she seem to be overreaching.