you deserve this rule ♥️

Great… Another year of me being completely oblivious and unable to tell people what year it is. I think I have something akin to face blindness but for gender. Not too long ago I was in a groomsmen for my buddy and his sister was one of the bridesmaids. Im told she was trans, but I had no idea, and he ended up making fun of me for not being aware of it. Like what do you people want from me? She was in a pretty dress, how am I supposed to know?

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@Skullgrid__dup_11231@lemmy.world 2026-03-06 16:53

I’m going to only interact with the year through coincidence online?

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@SuperNovaStar@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2026-03-06 16:57

I treat other trans people well, but myself quite poorly, so I guess my year will treat me great unless I’m alone?

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@homura1650@lemmy.world 2026-03-06 17:31

You want 2026 to fuck me?!? TBF, that’s only 2 trans women, but still.

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@Assassassin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2026-03-06 18:08

Guess I’m getting head for 2026 then

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@Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world 2026-03-06 19:04

How exactly does 2026 eat my ass?

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@chiliedogg@lemmy.world 2026-03-06 20:23

I never know if I’m doing enough for trans people. I like to think of my stance towards trans folk as “benevolent indifference.” That is - I don’t care even the smallest bit if someone is trans. They’re a person, and that’s all that’s needed for my respect. But I also recognize that that position isn’t always enough. It’s like when people said “All Lives Matter” in response to the BLM movement. Yes, all lives do matter, and my goal for society would be one where “All lives matter” is the only stance you need, but we don’t live in that world and sometimes we have to focus on protecting specific groups. But, as a white, male, cisgenger christian I also don’t want to fall into a “white savior” leadership mentality, so I never know how loudly to speak out on behalf of groups I’m not a part of.

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@Ryanmiller70@lemmy.zip 2026-03-06 20:31

What trans person did I piss off to have my mom die right at the start of the year?

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@ameancow@lemmy.world 2026-03-06 20:46

So, 2026 will leave me alone after I snap at it for making like, two straight hours of hyper-sexual “jokes” despite me having stopped engaging or laughing after the first several seconds of it, leading to a total friendship drama between her friends and me, and I get called a bigot but I literally just got tired of dildo jokes and said “I can’t take this anymore, I’ll be back later.”

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@TwilitSky@lemmy.world 2026-03-06 21:00

I guess 2026 will not think of me.

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@svcg@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2026-03-06 21:02

I treat myself pretty badly, so this isn’t great news.

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@VibeSurgeon@piefed.social 2026-03-06 21:39

If I’m going to be treated as a woman by 2026 I’m going to have to call that some kind of misgendering tbh

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@erin@piefed.blahaj.zone 2026-03-07 00:19

Oh, delightful! I’m not exactly sure how 2026 is gonna give me sloppy head but I’m looking forward to finding out.

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@kerrigan778@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2026-03-07 09:09

I do hope 2026 will suck my gock

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@Numberone@startrek.website 2026-03-06 15:59

It seems like Lemmy is all about trans women, I'm genuinely curious though why we don't have more trans men content. I'd say it's maybe on the order of 10:1 posts celebrating trans fem vs trans masc (obviously not a scientific calculation). I don't have a lot of background in a lot of trans spaces so this is coming from a place of ignorance, but do people in the community have any insight as to why it seems to be this way? Take this one for instance, it specifically says trans women. Why wouldn't this just say trans people, comrades or something like that? Is there a large descrepancy between numbers of trans fem/masc or something? Edit. I appreciate what people have said below. Together these responses give a textured albeit 10,000 foot answer to my question, which was what I was looking for. Thanks ya'll.

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