@aceofcosmicspace@lgbtqia.space
2026-09-28 10:23 UTC
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@Cassandra_Complex@beige.party 2026-09-28 10:32
@aceofcosmicspace@lgbtqia.space I've often tended towards gender neutral names, for the longest time I was known as Lav or Lavender, depending which seemed more accurate that day. Then I just did a swan dive into being just Lav, then Tanek, which has seemed to have stuck.
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@Phracker2Art@mstdn.social 2026-09-28 16:58
@aceofcosmicspace@lgbtqia.space I knew someone who was bigender. Had some feminine mannerisms, but still defaulted to the gender assigned at birth (male in this case) when it came to name and pronouns.
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@spacelogic@kind.social 2026-09-28 18:17
@aceofcosmicspace@lgbtqia.space I've done some of both. I started using a gender-neutral name and talking about my masculine and feminine aspects using different derivatives of that name; later, when my identity shifted towards a multigender masculine-dominant one, I stopped naming the feminine separately and now mostly use gender-neutral or weakly masculine handles. (I've always used a variety of names, even before I recognized gender as a factor.)
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@emmy@tech.lgbt 2026-09-28 19:33
@aceofcosmicspace@lgbtqia.space well, I just go by Taylor. If you're just talking to me, that is. We also have DID, and usually just go by Emmy no matter who's in front, but that's a whole separate subject. If you feel more comfortable using different names at different times, maybe look into plurality.