@Cassandra_Complex@beige.party
2026-09-28 10:32 UTC
@aceofcosmicspace@lgbtqia.space
I've often tended towards gender neutral names, for the longest time I was known as Lav or Lavender, depending which seemed more accurate that day.
Then I just did a swan dive into being just Lav, then Tanek, which has seemed to have stuck.
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@aceofcosmicspace@lgbtqia.space 2026-09-28 10:47
@Cassandra_Complex@beige.party I see! Thank you so much for letting me know. in my day to day life I use a gender neutral nickname, but I'm liking the idea of having a specific femme name for my femme self. I'm just wondering how to make that work in online space for example(like here), so that I get the joy of being called my femme name when I'm femme, given my handle etc is a name I just chose for online space before finding out I was bigender. Trit g to keep things simple...or as simple as things can be being plural and bigender, while also hopefully having space to be my full self/selves😂😁