@LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone
Post #4405155
2026-08-06 04:05 UTC
Replies (7)
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@AcidBurn@retrofed.com 2026-08-06 05:55
Just the one? If I had to pick a single one, it would be walking alone at night through a city, when I was 19 and not streetwise.
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@TheLeadenSea@sh.itjust.works 2026-08-06 06:13
Not fucking telling anyone when i was 12 “oh, but it came out of the blue!” Shut up, mother
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@Domi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2026-08-06 07:11
I should have transitioned years ago 😭
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@applebusch@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2026-08-06 08:38
its basically i regret not transitioning sooner, but my biggest regret is wasting so much time acting like an introvert. i spent so much time at home doing stuff basically to pass the time rather than going out and taking social risks. i could have been doing everything i dreamed of that whole time even if it was scary. maybe i would have found myself sooner if i did idk. but im not sure i would have been able to before i started transitioning.
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@Duke_Nukem_1990@feddit.org 2026-08-06 09:06
Staying wayyy to long not in one but two toxic relationships. I guess low self-esteem and fear of being alone will do that to a gal. I would also put “not transitioning earlier” but… ok I am not sure if this is a controversal/kinda woo-woo esoteric take but I honestly believe that if I had known earlier that I am trans, I would have died. Either because the region I grew up in being infested with Nazi scum would have gotten me or … well myself for knowing, not being able to do anything about it for years and years and seeing me turn into this grotesque form that should have never been. So yeah. I think my brain was protecting me from that. Unfortunately I plunged myself into that second toxic relationship, got married and then it was almost constant stress too, so apparently that didn’t feel safe for my brain either. Even tho looking back I could have done it, I think… well, what are ten years huh? (a lot, it’s a fucking lot and I am slightly salty)
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@ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 2026-08-06 08:07
I discovered my love of running way too late!
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@kkj@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2026-08-06 16:51
Not buying Bitcoin in 2010 when a friend first told me about it.