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In part, I'm scared to pressure my family for help again because what if they need that money to get to safety. What if they need that to rebuild, if the worst case scenario happens? I know it's unlikely for my parents or my sister + her wife, but I can't stop the catastrophizing what-if's in my mind right now. What if they need that desperately to at least get to relative safety? I don't want to pressure them to help me when there's the ever-looming threat that they'll lose their homes, too, even if there aren't wildfires actively ravaging their cities. It's a mostly irrational fear since AFAIK there aren't wildfires threatening their neighborhoods, I know, but I just. Can't bring myself to ask them again right now. Because there's that chance that they'll need that more to make sure they stay alive, and to be housed themselves if disaster strikes...