@LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone
Post #4165036
2026-07-28 13:40 UTC
Replies (6)
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@Banana@sh.itjust.works 2026-07-28 13:48
We don’t even hate men, patriarchy isn’t just men, it’s fully intertwined with capitalism. We hate a system that actively devalues anything feminine, when what we really need is balance of masculine and feminine.
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@ThreeCheesesalute@lemmus.org 2026-07-28 14:24
2/10 post, flat out incorrect and pretty sexist
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@yardratianSoma@lemmy.ca 2026-07-28 14:36
hmmmm, really depends . . . . I know some women who hate men, because their fathers were assholes who abused their mothers. I completely understand why such women would hate men categorically, because they were raised horribly by the first man they encountered in life. It really sucks for men like me, who were raised with love, but because of other men who weren’t raised right, I’m thrown in the same bucket as the abusers because well, I’m just a man, right?
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@SubArcticTundra@lemmy.ml 2026-07-28 15:52
I hate this generalising
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@Wren@lemmy.today 2026-07-28 18:28
I’d remove the “men” part and just say I hate the system and the system hates women.
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@i_dont_want_to@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2026-07-29 01:11
I don’t hate men. I like a lot of men. I have a strong distrust of men. I’m in a world where if I am hurt by a man, my choices would be to pretend it didn’t happen or suffer negative consequences (some long-lasting) while the offender gets a comparative slap on the wrist, if anything at all. It is not always obvious which men will be a perpetrator, and there are so many of them. However, I don’t let my caution become hatred. I completely understand the women that do, though. The men that hate women seem to do so because they are trying to make their own decisions, like deciding who they are open to sleep with, deciding how they would like to style themselves, or deciding what career they want. One is a matter of safety and being in charge of your own well-being. The other is a matter of control of someone else.