Post #4166278

2026-07-28 14:36 UTC

hmmmm, really depends . . . . I know some women who hate men, because their fathers were assholes who abused their mothers. I completely understand why such women would hate men categorically, because they were raised horribly by the first man they encountered in life. It really sucks for men like me, who were raised with love, but because of other men who weren’t raised right, I’m thrown in the same bucket as the abusers because well, I’m just a man, right?

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@MystValkyrie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2026-07-28 15:01

Gently, I think this is a comment is worth bringing up somewhere, but better posed on c/mensliberation or elsewhere. Women just want a space to vent amongst ourselves, and this is the space designated for that, per rule #1. If you’re one of the good ones like you say, then you have nothing to worry about and don’t need to interject in this particular space.

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@velma@sh.itjust.works 2026-07-28 15:20

I know some women who hate men, because their fathers were assholes who abused their mothers. That is reinforcing the statement in the meme that women hate men as a system. It really sucks for men like me, who were raised with love, but because of other men who weren’t raised right, I’m thrown in the same bucket as the abusers because well, I’m just a man, right? Even here, you’re blaming these men’s parents for not raising them right. There are men that are abusers. If you’re not, then why do you lump yourself in with those types of men?

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