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2026-07-27 14:31 UTC
@VenusianMars@cupoftea.social Have you ever had two women fight over you so hard that the psychic energy from their fighting over you put you in a coma? And the only way one of the women can fix this is to have her cool fairy husband, who is full aware of the affair and apparently down to clown with cuckoldry, agrees to save you by using his magic cloak to make it so you and the fairy baddie will never see each other again? No?
I cannot expound on the full mechanics of fairy magic, as it is a thing beyond logic, but the affair bit is simple enough. Pre-Christian Celts, and Irish in particular, seem to have little problem with polyamory as long as status and honor are maintained. CuChulainn's wife Emer did not appreciate it, and made a fuss, but Mannanan macLir did not give a damn so he let Fand do whatever. CuChulainn, being the big hero in a patriarchal society, gets away with it without judgment.
I have always interpreted the reason he goes into the sleep is their fighting over him, but there's other logic. There are also multiple versions of the story, and there are multiple examples of Emer being cool with CuChualainn having affairs... mostly with human women. So there's a lot going on with this story that doesn't make a lot of sense.
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@Godyssey@pagan.plus Thank You for responding, and with such as you did! ๐
It indeed is the story itself that seems to not have its mind made up about its own facts. However, I also struggled (still struggling? ๐ฌ๐ค๐ฅด) with the what and why regarding the apparent imposed separation, especially given that initially it didn't read as Polyamoury or cuckoldry [neither practise seems obvious here to Me as there doesn't seem to be any consent or communication about anything, and folks are just cheating on their respective spouses ๐คท๐ฝ, but perhaps CNC was their thing?!]
I'm just not comprehending, if ___ doesn't care if their spouse has lovers or one other lover, then why intervene at all? It isn't clear to Me if say, things were ao overwhelming that first ___ couldn't deal with things anymore, or, it was becoming publicly known and their status/image etc couldn't have that, or, if real jealousy arose, or, if this were just a final and very poor "solution" to the issue.
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