Post #4038147

There's a girl I'm acquainted with through online spaces. She's very nice. She's also trans and on the clocky end of the spectrum. From a distance, you'd probably not notice she's trans. But if you're closer to her, you almost definitely would. She also has a very deep voice. She's often surprised that she gets clocked. And she says she "doesn't know why it happens." And I'm not gonna be the one to tell her that she is, in fact, clocky. That's a mean thing to do. But, she also insists on dressing emo/goth and she's in her 30's. And she wears very robust lipsticks every day. Metallic blue, matte black, etc. And she's very bad at applying them. It's uneven and tends to either go outside her lips or not fill them out entirely, if not both. This adds to why she gets clocked, for sure. She posts photos regularly. And unless she asks for feedback, I don't believe I have a way to let her know, correct? Does anyone feel differently? You wouldn't want someone to tell you about your lipstick/makeup, correct?