Post #3964701
2026-07-20 16:45 UTC
I need a #pronoun check-in on something and could use the help of the general #trans Mastodon community to check in on this.
My daughter has a friend who - it feels like - likes to fight with EVERYONE and EVERYTHING over almost any topic.
This friend also identifies (like me) as agender.
This friend has had a number of... odd... pronoun choices over the years, including wanting to be refereed to as "it" (not in a kinky way) for a long period of time.
The most recent pronoun fuckery is that this friend no longer wants to be refereed to as "they" - which is fine for "they" the singular personal pronoun, but is virtually impossible for "they" as the generic plural or non-specific version of "they", including things like "them" and "their".
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@alexadeswift@lgbtqia.space 2026-07-20 16:51
@thevhswizard@retro.pizza Pronoun choices are pronoun choices and not fuckery, whatever we may personally think. Let this friend explore, and provide a space that may not be available at home or elsewhere, including the space to be fucking annoying!