Post #3278870

2026-06-02 14:29 UTC

@Melezioh@mstdn.games @argentum@mas.to @BriBear@blahaj.zone @crazyeddie@mastodon.social What I mean is that I prefer to go for an approach I have seen work better in terms of getting people to listen and reflect. Trans women being toxic to trans men isn't the same thing as cis people being toxic to trans men, because the relative levels of privilege aren't the same. Direct confrontation tends to make the attitude worse, because of how the recipient is inclined to frame it. Call that hand holding if you want but I am more interested in building community than us turning on each other in exactly the way many outsiders want us to. IMO there are too few of us to be more divided and we all have our own problems to be dealing with. Very Online trans women are actually not in my top ten biggest problems

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@crazyeddie@mastodon.social 2026-06-02 14:38

@kittyboy77@tech.lgbt @Melezioh@mstdn.games @argentum@mas.to @BriBear@blahaj.zone This is how Nazi bars are made though. If you can't even correct bad behavior through admonishment you're in trouble.

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@Melezioh@mstdn.games 2026-06-02 14:53

@kittyboy77@tech.lgbt @argentum@mas.to @BriBear@blahaj.zone @crazyeddie@mastodon.social fair. Honestly if it is a trans fem then I generally leave it to another trans fem to correct them or teach them better as they won’t listen to me. I am the enemy. I won’t report them or anything. I’ll usually make a post and hope they see it or a trans fem I know saw the post and will say something. If you can do better than that then that’s cool too. Cis women need to be called out on it too, of course and they are out there just the same.

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