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2026-06-09 00:56 UTC

Also I love how all the objectively toxic parts of East Asian culture are suddenly romanticized if it’s Japan or South Korea we’re talking about. Stuff like conservative family dynamics, overbearing work culture, openly commenting on how people look, etc.

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@bilb@lemmy.ml 2026-06-09 01:43

When I spend time reading about culture in other countries, especially Japan and South Korea, but also China, it sometimes sounds intolerable to me. Not because I think it can be said to be overall worse than the one I’m in, it’s just bad in ways that I am not acclimated to and would struggle to tolerate. I grew up in the United States, and I have developed spiritual/psychological callouses that let me operate here. Maybe another analogy would be microbiome and immune response. Anyway, I’m sure the reality is different. These are just the way I make sense of what I hear. After all, people do travel and manage to thrive in many places.

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@Saymaz@lemmygrad.ml 2026-06-10 07:38

“In Japan, the local establishment ban foreigners from entering to preserve theory culture for the regular patrons.” Bruh, that’s just xenophobia.

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