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2026-05-13 18:04 UTC

Also, go high waisted. Always. Sometimes I forget this and go low-waisted and it's a mistake. Sadly, T makes our body shape in the mid-section less than workable for low-waisted jeans, and that's a pretty dysphoric look. It accents the boy belly. But high-waisted pulls that in a bit and changes the look. It looks more like a femme paunch, and if you're like me, you're totally cool with having that bit of femme in your look. #TransFemmeClothing

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@FinalGirl@blackqueer.life 2026-05-13 18:05

Now, some things to keep in mind when shopping for jeans: Women's clothes are not made of cardboard. Those old men’s 501 jeans you buy and live in are a COMPLETELY different animal. Women's jeans, like women's T-shirts, and women's anything else, are thinner, softer, and definitely not "rugged." You're going to think of them as "cheap," "flimsy," and "low-quality." But let me flip that. They are not (well, they sort of are, but that’s a whole other essay), they are feminine. And when you wear them, you will likely feel A LOT more feminine… this is a good thing. This is obviously mostly for the HRT crowd, but women's clothing is weirdly made for women's skin…and women's skin is thinner, softer, and drier. Women's clothing sits against that skin better. Don't think of it as "cheaper" but rather as "more comfortable." Because, at least to me, it really is. Putting on a pair of men's jeans feels like wearing burlap, now. Like, it literally hurts. Another thing to remember is women's jeans are cut…well…for women. #TransFemmeClothing

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