Post #3184174
2026-05-13 17:57 UTC
After a couple months of wearing brown and black women's t-shirts, I moved to dark blue, then light blue, then purple, then pink, then pick with stripes, then abstract designs, then flower designs, then…
This is the important thing:
I kept wearing them. And every time I wore one, nothing happened. And every time nothing happened, I felt more confident.
Finally, (About 3 months) I threw all my other T-shirts away and only had women's Ts. Eventually, the T-shirts became normal. It was just part of my look. I didn't think about it, and nobody else thought about it.
At that point, I could make another change and it would be a small change. So I moved onto jeans.
Okay, here's where shit gets dark…
#TransFemmeClothing
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@FinalGirl@blackqueer.life 2026-05-13 17:57
I’m not gonna lie. This will not be easy, and may break you. Entering the world of women's jeans is the closest I've ever come to entering the gates of hell. Trying to get used to women’s jeans is going to make you feel crazy. It's going to make you feel broken and wrong and like you don't belong. Repeat this mantra: This happens to all women. Literally, I had so many cis women come out to complain about how much jeans-buying sucked that it seemed to be an almost universal woman experience. There are so many cuts, so many size variations, it's like it's set up to make you crazy. So don't feel bad. It's going to suck. But there's hope… #TransFemmeClothing