Post #3184172

2026-05-13 17:51 UTC

The first thing I did was wear women's T-shirts. I changed nothing but what type of T-shirts I wear. I traded in my men's T-shirts for boring women's T-shirts. That's it. Same shoes, same jeans, same everything. Seems dumb? It's not. First of all, women's T-shirts are cut different. But they are also colored different and they feel different. And that last part was important to me–ESPECIALLY since I started this after starting estrogen. If you haven’t done HRT and are planning to… realize that your men’s clothes will straight up HURT on estrogen. They feel like wearing burlap and sandpaper. Women’s cloths are just… softer, lighter, thinner. They feel very different. And that slight difference was huge for my mental health. They made me feel more femme. And the best part: nobody noticed or cared that I was wearing a woman's T-shirt. But I did. #TransFemmeClothing

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@FinalGirl@blackqueer.life 2026-05-13 17:54

I wore just woman's T-shirts for months. Not scoop neck, those look…too femme. I wore V-neck, or just regular crew neck. Mostly V-neck. They look "European" and "metrosexual." Nothing to see here. Where did I buy them? Your new friend: Thrift stores. In my tiny mountain town, there is one main thrift store, and it has literally rows of plain, colored, women's T-shirts. These are often V-neck or scoop neck. Sometime they have cap sleeves (Look it up). Thrift stores. Use them. No excuses. If I can find women’s T-shirts in my tiny town, they'll be in any bigger than 5000 people city. No designs, no frills. Plain V-neck woman's T-shirt. I bought as many colors as I could find, but started with brown and black until I was comfortable. #TransFemmeClothing

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@bottled_o_taki@blackqueer.life 2026-05-13 19:16

@FinalGirl@blackqueer.life girllll the tees thing is sooo real!! I can’t skate in my old oversized skate shirts without something under anymore T-T Painful!!!

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