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i also hate knowing a trans persons deadname because it slips up without me wanting to say it. If i call a trans person by deadname and i notice that i fumbled again, it righfully feels like someone rips my guts out. I hate myself for doing that every time. This results me in avoiding saying any names, saying "you" or "them" only. i dont know how to control what i say in general i guess, like i want to say something in my head but random shit comes out.