Post #2824456
2026-02-27 14:07 UTC
It is usually good advice to follow as I have seen it turn messy, but life doesn't always work out that way. The type of person I would date is usually not found anywhere else. I prefer the heavily introverted types and they don't tend to do a lot of things out where I might find them. Online dating is just depressing even if you do get matches.
I find it a lot harder to get an ideal partner than a job, so I am willing to gamble for the right person.
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@AnchoriteMagus@lemmy.world 2026-02-27 14:15
Bottom line: do you like your job, your standing at your job, and your friendship with John more or less than the potential of getting with her? That's the only real question here, since those things are what you're risking if it goes bad. If the juice still sounds worth the squeeze, then you have your answer, but go into it with both eyes open. There will be fallout from somewhere. Don't bemoan your situation in 6 months when you have to deal with it.