Post #2824457
2026-02-27 14:15 UTC
Bottom line: do you like your job, your standing at your job, and your friendship with John more or less than the potential of getting with her?
That's the only real question here, since those things are what you're risking if it goes bad.
If the juice still sounds worth the squeeze, then you have your answer, but go into it with both eyes open. There will be fallout from somewhere. Don't bemoan your situation in 6 months when you have to deal with it.
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@Bread@sh.itjust.works 2026-02-27 14:28
Fair point. I don't know if this lemon is worth squeezing or not yet. Only time will tell. She may end up dating him or he may leave all together. I don't know her well enough yet to make that call. If there is anything that makes sense to me right now, its determining if this is a very juicy lemon without cutting it open.