Post #1961124
2026-05-02 12:20 UTC
@aizuchi jokes aside. It's quite a hard to answer question.
1. I guess the same we develop a gaydar to precisely avoid the danger of flirting with a homophobic idiot, the same radar works for dangerous people.
2. Gym. If you look like you could take them, usually there's little to worry.
3. Avoid places where drugs are sold (clubs).
4. Engage in chit chat that's long enough to figure their mental wellbeing before actually meeting face to face.
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@maikel@vmst.io 2026-05-02 12:22
@aizuchi number 4 is probably the one we do the most before the others. And even when you meet you choose a public place where you feel safe just in case.