Post #1961119
2026-05-02 17:05 UTC
@30to40olives @aizuchi yeah, I've never tried to date any man I wasn't already friends with.
When I was younger, all the spaces I hung out in were very male-dominated, so it was easy to meet straight and bi men who wanted a relationship with someone who shared their interests.
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@aizuchi@hachyderm.io 2026-05-02 18:29
@rowyn @30to40olives most of my male friends aren’t friend fuckers, or even romantically poly. And i get that. And they say “i don’t want you ruin our friendship” or “i don’t want to make it weird”, which are extremely valid. But the evil voice in my head says “it’s because you’re traaaannnnsss”. Sure does get lonely. 🫤