Post #1942983
2026-03-29 16:13 UTC
@cassey I’m really happy that you found a way of being that makes you comfortable, that’s what we all deserve.
has it happened to you that you meet someone queer but you didn’t know at first, not by their looks or attitude, but after talking to them you knew it deeply that they were queer? and you go huh..
that difference is the projecting that i’m talking about. we all implicitly put people in these categories, and we perpetuate that when we start thinking in terms of those categories too.
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@cassey@ottawa.place 2026-03-29 17:22
@eljojo I am not really sure how I would know if someone is queer based not on their looks or attitude or the things they do or their beliefs really tbh! I don’t really have a sense of what queer could be outside some combination of those things.