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one day when I die, someone will remember me long after I’m gone. hopefully fondly, but not expected. I’ll be honest, I never wanted kids. I love them, I provide and care for them. is my life richer because of them? 🤷 no? I just hope they grow up to be better than me and live fulfilling happy lives. I can’t ask for much more than that. to anyone who is trying to force you or “change your mind” about having them, I’ll ask you this. If they can’t respect your boundaries on this, why would they respect your boundaries on anything else?