Post #1804114

A bit of an odd niche vent, I am an extreme spoon cuddle admirer. I am a side sleeper and a doctor once said I have short tendons in my legs that leads to me aprreciating sleeping in a curled up position. I have dated people 16 cm to 20 cm shorter than myself, men and women, and I do not appreciate being used as a cuddle booster seat. I once dated a guy about 16 cm taller than me and I was like "Awesome now I get to be lil spoon" unfortunately he was a big strong man and didn't like being big and strong while sleeping so I played jetpack, which also, ngl, not a huge fan. I do not get to be a curled up pupper in this case and it's just kinda uncomfy. It was a different kinda splayed out than I usually was with him and this one was much less enjoyable. Don't misunderstand I loved all of these people and would 100% sleep in these positions again. I am not hating. HOWEVER My wifish is about 4 cm shorter than me. Ae fits me like a glove and I get to be "flapjacked", as we call it, every night because at that small size difference being little spooned is not uncomfortable. Flapjacked has to do with me being an American and being flipped on my other side to move from big spoon to little spoon as one would flip a pancake or a flap jack. EXTREME SPOON ADMIRATION. The perfect cuddles >=3