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@justine First of all, don't be sorry. You have just learned the passing away of your Dad, a person who was important in your life. As someone who has had his own history of abuse and rejection, I think it's normal to be ambivalent about someone who passed away. On one hand, there was love. On the other, of course, there was hurt. And the more they hurt you, the harder it is to remember their good side, and all the things they gave you. Allow yourself to grieve.