Post #1716774

@ciara @Willow @Tessa @eri Yes, it can feel like an ultimatum and also hurt some transition progress. But from my own transition and relationship, sometimes these "ultimatum" shouldn't be taken at face value, they can be a proxy for (now) unmet needs on the side of the partner. (Or just honest, sometimes attraction depends on some things and without them ...) But I'd also say, it really depends on the way it is said.