Post #1649613

@taedryn I chose "I'm still figuring it out" because I am¹, but I do also feel kind of negative about it. Part of that stems from the fact that I do want sex, but I need it to be part of a relationship (not necessarily a capital R relationship, just some kind of connection), not just a random hookup, and I don't know how to build a relationship that includes that without expressing sexual attraction. In the past, I expressed attraction because that was how I labelled my feelings and desires, but now, that feels like it would be a lie. ¹ And possibly focusing too much on microlabels. Demisexual? Reciprosexual? Cupiosexual?