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I was talking with a friend about dating apps, privacy, security and safety.
They are using Feeld, which lets you tag specific kinks -- and which changed their TOS about 2 years ago (IIRC) to specify that they sell user data. (In a massive betrayal of the trust and safety of their user base.)
My friend's response was that they aren't ashamed of who they are and if an app wants to sell their data, no big deal.
My position was that in a time of rising fascism, it's really worth thinking about how in the 1930's, IBM set up the systems to tag and sort people by "undesirable" qualities. In Germany.
I fear for people with all my heart.
For the reading comprehension impaired, let me be clear: I'm not telling anyone not to live their life. I'm saying be smart, raise your game on privacy and security, and keep yourself and your people as safe as you can in a brutal world.
@Em0nM4stodon wrote a great article on data privacy and dating apps (with a focus on queer apps but also relevant to any dating apps).
Read it, share it with your people, and act on it.
https://www.privacyguides.org/articles/2025/06/24/queer-dating-apps-beware-who-you-trust/
#Dating #QueerDating #DatingApps #SurveillanceCapitalism #DataBrokers #DatingApp #Privacy #PrivacyGuides #Feeld #SocialMedia #Technology
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@AdaraAstin @Em0nM4stodon As you say, it's not about being ashamed of who you are. It's about somebody thinking you belong in a KZ camp because of you are.
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@AdaraAstin It’s really sad that the conclusion is basically „don’t use dating apps“ 🥲
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@AdaraAstin @Em0nM4stodon
Oh wow!
Get off that app.
You just don’t know where that data is going.
One of our supermarket chains has gone full Palantir tracking recently. I refuse to go in there anymore. I’m not doing anything wrong but why should they have my data? And why should they profit off me. I’m paying for their goods.
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@AdaraAstin @Em0nM4stodon
The Devil's greatest trick was to convince people that if they have nothing to hide, they have nothing to fear. It ain't so.
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