@cantdoxthedrox@mastodon.wolfssocial.space
Post #1436742
2026-04-20 06:48 UTC
Replies (5)
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@cantdoxthedrox@mastodon.wolfssocial.space 2026-04-20 21:41
I'd say it was a good idea asking him out 😇 (And he actually found out it was about him before I texted him xD) Side note: Gonna get back to your commission requests tomorrow. :)
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@keeya@icy.arcticfluff.eu 2026-04-20 06:54
@cantdoxthedrox If you have stuff to talk about together, why not. :3 Might always be the chance he's just waiting for you to ask because he's in the same mindset. :D And if not at least you know.
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@kianga@fedi.tail.ooo 2026-04-20 07:01
@cantdoxthedrox Go for it, life is too short to waste it on doubts :3
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@captainbara@meow.social 2026-04-20 09:01
@cantdoxthedrox I was in a somewhat similar bind once. I came up with lots of logical arguments on why I shouldn't contact her and broach the subject. I eventually weighed the cost vs. benefit. The cost was a little discomfort. The benefit ranged anywhere from a small pleasant date to a lifetime of happiness. In my case, it led to the happiest five years of my life. Sadly, we ultimately couldn't make it work past five years. I would never trade those five years for anything. We are still friends today. The cost is tiny compared to the potential benefit. This isn't a decision for the "logical" part of your brain. Its job is to find reasons why you shouldn't. When it comes to love, logic fails. Love isn't logical. It isn't supposed to be. Listen to your heart. It knows more than logic ever will. If you don't make a play for him, you will never know if you could have had him. You will never know what might have been.
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@HisNameIsOx@woof.group 2026-04-20 09:32
@cantdoxthedrox You already have the consequences if a No, you're not currently dating him. Statistically you should opt for the Yes because the chances are always better 😊