Post #1389151
2024-01-18 10:08 UTC
@oddtail I'm still pre transition but I've known for about 5 years now and this still hasn't changed for me, every time I doubt my transness it keeps coming back
I have friends who are seemingly indecisive about their gender but I know exactly what's going on with them, because, been there done that
figuring all of this out takes time, making peace with it all is tough, but nothing can invalidate those feelings in the long run :neocat_heart:
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@enby_of_the_apocalypse@kolektiva.social 2024-02-05 11:17
@novenary @oddtail same, or I guess I have socially transitioned, but I haven’t even started medical transition yet, almost 5 years in. I want top surgery so badly but it’s so hard. I’ve kinda stopped doubting one or two years ago. Socially transitioning (and stuff like new clothes) has made me so used to thinking of myself as nonbinary that it just feels self-evident. I guess being closeted can make the doubt worse because pretending to be your agab can really have an effect on you, I think. But doubt really sucks, I also dealt with it a lot in the past. I’d just like you to know that you’re not alone, both in doubting and in being pre-transition (at least in some ways) 5 years in, and it gets better.