Post #1318119
2026-04-14 15:14 UTC
This is one reason why online dating is such a mess
Humans are stinky, twitchy, and noisy creatures, and that data streams from them like a fucking DELUGE. You think your gaming PC is fast and devours data? My Dude, your body is non-stop streaming petabytes of data every second
There is stuff going on with your pupils, mouth, and eyes that are fast and furious. Your face is buzzing with microexpressions that flit in and out in less than a blink of an eye
There is world of in-person signaling
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@screwturn@mastodon.social 2026-04-14 15:19
So, your favorite Manosphere Influencer might, in his tedious ignorance, have listed these things you are supposed to match up to, but real women in real in-person situations in which you actually are, are reading thousands of other signals emanating from your body and possessions. While you are trying to sell her on your list of manosphere points that she is supposed to comply with, she is evaluating in realtime things that aren't on that list at all, and WORSE, your brain is doing the SAME