Post #1236470
2026-03-29 22:53 UTC
Two and a half years later, I'm still refusing to do the performative grief shit. And it's still clearly bothering people.
They get the Sad Look and make pitying noises and say "oh I didn't knowwwwww".
I give them a blank look and change the subject.
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@Tattie@eldritch.cafe 2026-03-29 22:54
I'm sure some will think "I don't care how I attack this b—, she's a racist, all tactics are valid". But I have to read these attacks. And I'm reminded of how I felt, in the face of the Bad Widow critique. Dehumanised. Judged. Quashed. I'm asking again for everyone to just be normal about widows. Fin/