Post #1018031

I am sometimes a bit disquieted when people refer to NB people as some combination of girlboy/boygirl. There are definitely people within that spectrum that identify that way, but it seems to exclude those who feel a third way, or people like myself who identify as ... not. Not that I am asking for a purity test here. I meet people where they are, and I don't think any harm is meant. I've long accepted that my position makes me a curious outlier that sometimes breaks people's brains. Being agender is kinda like being the Bobby Tables or null pointer of the whole gender-identity discussion, and most people are not mentally prepared for your not-thing to be ... a thing.