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Dee in London

@dee@social.treehouse.systems
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#trans she/her #plural #poly

cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother.

catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much.

when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life

follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate.

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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Aug 06, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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yay, Elastica are back and going to release new music. Elastica... the band who almost run my sorry homeless ass over when I was sleeping in the Hacienda car park in late 1993, and apologised by feeding me from their rider before then shooting me a lot during Laserquest. I went on tour with them many times, and they never made one bad record and in Justin Welch they have the best drummer I ever saw, and in Annie one of the best bassists (ignoring problems with drugs)... and in Donna a gem of a person so creative on guitar... and Justine. Justine was so unfuckingbelievably kind, like, you don't know how much. I called her up one time as I needed to sell some records at the tape exchange so that I could eat yet I didn't have any ID so they wouldn't accept the sale. she came and met me, refused to give her ID but instead just gave me more money than I needed. she also had this really strong cohort of intelligent women as friends, you definitely know some of them (now famous artists and musicians)... and she never wanted fame. yet that first album... every song is excellent. and because I know the people behind a lot of the songs I like the songs even more (usually the reverse happens when you know the people). my favourite song on that album was called Blue, which became the name of a fanzine I sold to keep myself alive and feed myself.
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Aug 04, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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I like the fact that a small group of people know exactly what shenanigans this is.
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Aug 04, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

social.treehouse.systems
Anyone have a field in a UK dark sky area that I can leave a shipping container in? Ideally around hay-on-wye or something like that. It's a non permanent structure, but if you happen to have 16A power and a water supply even better.
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Aug 03, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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Replying to @tragivictoria@mastodon.com.pl
@tragivictoria@mastodon.com.pl that sounds like a good day (you're in bed out of choice, right?)
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Aug 03, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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I just accidentally missed my mouth and poured water down myself. How's your day going?
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 31, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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Replying to @Longspeak@bardicperspiration.club
@Longspeak@bardicperspiration.club crazy life I guess
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 30, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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Wow, just eaten my first full meal in 5 days, and I really needed that. I already feel like I'm more alive.
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 30, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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Is there such a thing as rfid airtags? I want to put rfid stickers on a bunch of things, register what those things are in an app, and then register what I have on me. I.e. stickers on things I travel with, down to nice shampoo and conditioner, and then when I do a scan it will create a collection switch I can call "hotel room", and after I leave the room I can scan and it will tell me what it can't find... I.e. that I've left the expensive conditioner again. Not full airtags, but way cheaper and more useful for lots of small things
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 30, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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Two weeks to needing to stopping HRT 4 weeks before bottom surgery... My levels were very high and it's a DVT risk amplifier. I know this means stopping estrogen, but does it mean stopping progesterone too? 🤔 I've no real clue as to the effect of this, I assume an emotional crash. Anyone been through this? #deevagina
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 28, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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Do we think this deodorises the toilet or my ass? 🤔
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 28, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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As is fairly typical for 5 star hotels, the room sucks 😂 The place in Shibuya was only 4 star and was a massive step up from this. I swear 5 star hotels mostly exist to test someone's willingness to pay, and that they are frequently bested by 3-4 star places. What most people don't realise is the stars are not a rating system, they're just a checklist for whether there's a trouser press in the room, and a gown, etc. nothing in the rating says the room has to be nice. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hotel_rating
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 28, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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It took about 45 minutes before they broke
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 28, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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Oh and I'm too early for check-in, so I've sat in a chair directly facing the check-in desk and I will wait the next 3 hours or until they're very uncomfortable with my presence and choose to check me in... Whichever comes soonest
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 28, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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Swapped hotels, I liked the Shibuya one which was modest, but now compelled to move into a 5 star one near the conference center which I already dislike as it feels like half an Italian mountain was excavated to supply the marble. Baggage was heavy so opted for £100 taxi ride which was also fun. So much of the Tokyo road system is layered too, with elevated sections running for long spans, and they feel like tunnels as they are walled to suppress noise pollution for the areas they pass through.
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 27, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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Hey everyone say hi to @sena@chaosfem.tw who is new to fedi. Recently egg cracked, just started HRT and living in Tokyo, and very disconnected from any trans community as things are different in Japan especially if you are a Westerner. We spent most of yesterday evening chatting about the first year and beyond on estrogen, providing tips that help navigate various stages, and also talking about how difficult it is to feel connected to community. So I recommended fedi... Which is not a silver bullet at all, it takes effort to learn how to use it and build up a good list of people to follow, etc, and this timezone is quieter than the European and American timezones. But it's how I found community so I'm hoping it works for her too. If you're on an Asia timezone please consider following her and helping her to settle in. Also she's nervous and shy, it's cute.
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 26, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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Feeling a bit isolated and lonely in Tokyo, would've been nice to meet people and have a chat and be social. I figure work will kick in today, but that's not the same as chatting to queer and fun folk. On the 9th August I arrive in Toronto, and have the Sunday evening free. Do I know anyone in Toronto who might want to grab a bite to eat and chat for a while?
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 26, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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Replying to @dianea@lgbtqia.space
@dianea@lgbtqia.space can you find an air conditioned place?
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 25, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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trans, mh, dysphoria,weight Hover or focus to reveal Sensitive
I've always had detachment from my body, not felt connected to it. This started to change with transitioning, but it's area focused. I like my boobs, I like the waist that has emerged, my butt looks great from every angle (so I'm reliably told). But the detachment remains. I measured as 25.2 BMI 6 weeks ago, now I measure it as 22.5 BMI. I can do this as I don't care about how my body feels or suffers, I don't care about the whole of it, just bits of it. I feel like what is emerging I feel connected to, the rest I still need to learn to accept. I've started to understand, after the transphobic attack on me earlier this week, that surgery isn't going to solve all the things. I'm going to be able to look at my body in the mirror and feel vastly better about it, but others are going to see a tall person with Adams apple, and clock me as something I'm not as they rightly will not see me naked. I am struggling to know what I need for me, vs what I need to give me safety as me. I find myself ever more interested in the science of social engineering as a way to signal to others how I see me, to better gift myself safety. The emfcamp talk on how to break into buildings with boobs is revealing in this sense and cited good resources... Maybe I can draw from those. My body is pretty amazing, but yet I don't treat it with respect yet, and my internal image of it is not what others see. I've so much still to do. PS: I seldom post my thoughts like this... Is it interesting to anyone?
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 25, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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I'm so overdressed 😂 People, you can do better!
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 25, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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Am awake and dressed... About to go to breakfast and realise I've dressed for a date night. I look hot. That's right, I've a date with breakfast.
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 25, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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I've made it to 20:35, cannot last any longer, sleep beckons. Saw the Tokyo hackspace is being refurbished, so instead shopping in Harajuku is on the menu, as well as a visit to an extinct media museum I only learned about today
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 25, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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Slept in the hotel lobby and they didn't even notice. Now I've got my room and it turns out all I needed was a shower and to take my meds. Feeling energetic now so will go explore Tokyo
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 25, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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May go sleep on the street for a couple of hours. So tired.
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 25, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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Some of you know, because I've told you, that I use Grindr as a travel app. Touch down, open Grindr, filter to the girls... Ask them where is safe, how things work, etc. Trans helps trans, it's great. But I've been here before, I came with my partner who lived here for years and years, so I know where to go. Yet still I'm wondering... Would trans helping trans include someone letting me crash in their air conditioned apartment until my hotel check in opens. No play, just snoozing 😂 would Grindr deliver that I wonder... Though I don't wonder enough to try, it's just amusing a thought to a sleep deprived and hot me.
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 25, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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Have found a coffee shop, it's barely cooler inside but the sun is scorching outside. Air conditioned shops aren't open until 11am... It's going to be a long day, I will need to hydrate a lot.
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 24, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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Omg, it's so hot It's 7am and it's really hot already 🥵
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 24, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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Am now in Tokyo 🗼
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 23, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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anyone who works somewhere cool where you think "we should've sponsored emfcamp"... go back and rave about how good 2026 is and sow the seed now for sponsoring in a couple of years. tell your boss, or their boss, and get them to commit to supporting the hacker / maker community in a couple of years. then DM me their details so I can know to keep the leads warm, meet them at the various industry events in the intervening years, and make it happen come 2028. usual caveats on good companies only pls
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 23, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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I think I have just opted in to be sponsors co-lead for #emfcamp2028 😆 we are starting early!
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 23, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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I've done the very gay thing of buying some clothes because I thought they were sexy and hot (a certain colourway of Strauss)... only to be told this is the colourway my partner has. I am dumb, I am very gay for her, it was snuck into my subconscious so far as to say "that colourway is really hot, you should get it"... I am gay for her.
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 23, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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update: officers coming over today to interview me. I'll again ignore the fact that they emailed me to say "due to the extreme prejudicial nature of this incident we would like an officer to interview you in person, please call 101 and quote this number" and then on the call, the officer proceeded to call me "Sir" 8 times despite my explicitly telling him not to. the path to a successful hate crime report involves multiple small psychic injuries. I really get why people just do not report things. I'll be on the flight to Tokyo tomorrow, it will all be fine 😮‍💨
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 23, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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Now it's the morning after, I'm calmer but still upset. I've reported it to the Met Police as a hate crime. I am sure nothing will come of it, but I refuse to just accept it as something that happens and that it's ok.
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 22, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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It's hard not to start thinking things like: was it the shorts? Did the shoes give me away? Did I have a stubble shadow? To enumerate the things that made me clockable. To wonder whether I should go punk, tactical, or something else inherently more intimidating to others. Feeling attractive and soft made it hurt more. I was disarmed, I didn't expect it close to home 😥
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 22, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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I can no longer say that I haven't experienced direct transphobia and hate... In the street near where I live too. It sucks, a lot.
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 22, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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Finally in my post-EMF "let's think about the next bit of travel" mode, looking up weather in Tokyo. It'll be 34-40'c with tropical thunderstorms and torrential rain. My wardrobe has nothing for this combination... I fly in 48 hours and have no chance to change this.
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 21, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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re: surgery, vaginoplasty, grs, blood Hover or focus to reveal Sensitive
@magmora@lgbtqia.space oh yay! we can DM whilst we're both non-mobile and bored out of our brains
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 21, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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re: surgery Hover or focus to reveal Sensitive
now watching a video that referred to death as being a possible but very unlikely side effect. thanks Parkside Hospital, this is very reassuring. (the video did go on to say the chances of death are lower than driving a car... which isn't as reassuring as they imagine)
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 21, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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surgery Hover or focus to reveal Sensitive
this is now my surgery thread... starting to write this almost 2 months prior having to go through the pre-surgery information is a bit strange... I'm learning about the various types of general anaesthesia. I have never experienced a general, so I'm naturally most nervous about this aspect of the surgery. oh... September 14th... less than 2 months away.
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 13, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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Replying to @alexadeswift@lgbtqia.space
@alexadeswift@lgbtqia.space it kinda is. but it's also the role where I best protect others like me and shape the work to best fit each person. I feel like I do a lot of good in this role, and that when I make each individual more successful I get one of the most high performing teams... which keeps us all safe and doing well. but there's a lot for me to be the shield for. you know that meme of the big armoured guy protecting the small guy... that feels like me in this role, enough experience and trauma to take all the punches and not feel them whilst protecting the team and everyone around.
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 13, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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and my weekly calendar summary has this to say about tomorrow: Tuesday is the crunch day: 12 meetings back-to-back, 9am to 7:55pm, no gaps 😭 11 hours, no lunch, no break. Career advice: Don't become a people manager, definitely avoid progressing as a people manager.
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 13, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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I'm a little overwhelmed by my next month... EMF, to run the planetarium, give a talk (ad-lib), participate in a star party, help run a few other errands. Tokyo and Yokohama, for kubecon booth, 3 talks (no material ready), some customers, and 3 hotels in a week mostly in Shibuya. Toronto, for work thing, 8 talks (material prepped), social events. And between those things the opera, Cate Le Bon, helping London queer swap, a senior leadership meeting and board meeting prep, other work things. Just slightly overcommitted... How to make time for partners 🫣
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 12, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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My talk at the festival (bodgeham-on-wye) within the festival (#emfcamp) had been accepted. Confirmation of time to follow. It's an Ad-lib story telling of my origin story in tech, which for reasons that don't make a lot of sense involved a sizeable part of the mid 1990s music industry and some fun stories about how I won a Brit award and other shenanigans. It will not be recorded.
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 10, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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just one more discord, that'll fix me, I swear, just one more and then I'm done
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 09, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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Hey, are you going to #emfcamp ? Are you interested in making custom content for the #Planetarium ? If so, let me know... I can help you with the content requirements, and help you with formats, and also schedule time for your content. The theme of EMF is Space... but the planetarium doesn't only have to show the usual stars and things, it's a 360 degree immersive experience and planetarium dome and we can show any content in it. The usual ideas: Constellations (maybe presented in a new way?)Solar system and planetsMilky way New ideas you could make this weekend: What might it look like to be inside the core of the earth?What would a crazy space battle look like if you were in it? (pick your favourite game, figure out how to render it in the required format as a video)?What does cosmic goo look like if it were dripped on the dome and you're all actually inside a glass sphere watching it happen?Can you visualise global train and air transit from inside the globe? (watch the planes complete great circles above your head - and see the speed of Japanese trains compared to DB trains) the Planetarium is open for ideas. we will of course have family shows that are regular planetarium specialities, but we invite the demoscene and everyone else to make things for the dome. follow @installations@social.emfcamp.org to learn more close to the event (and maybe during)
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 08, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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@helle@tacobelllabs.net good morning, I realise I'm quite excited by the prospect of meeting you at emf after following you for so long, I hope you come say hi (you can see what I look like, I've no idea what you look like). I also hope the build goes well 💜 and that you have the energy, and the weather plays nice, that the nice skirts come out

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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 06, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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those airtag things... the only apple hardware I have is an iPad, do they fully work without an iPhone, Mac or other device, just an iPad?

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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 05, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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my weekend so far: drove to South Wales with telescope and tent, failed to put up the tent as I didn't bring a pump, failed to put up the telescope as I didn't bring the mount. Fixed the window in a cottage, and trapped and released a spider named Frank, played drafts against a 10y old (I won, and then felt guilty and I won again, I really tried hard the third time and finally lost), we slept in on Saturday and I popped into Hay-on-Wye and bought cider for EMF Camp (in plastic, so safe to bring, but made locally), and I bought a book. Went to Brecon as we hired a boat, and we had picnic on the boat whilst I navigated a canal. Went wild swimming under a bridge, caught butterflies to identify (and released them), took the boat back, and walked around Brecon. Stopped at a farm shop on the way back and bought fresh veg via an honesty box. Made dinner of fish and veg, watched the football with my bestie's family, stayed up late chatting with my bestie. Sunday slept in, and then went to Hay for tea and bought the "How to teach your dog Welsh" book. Went climbing, had lunch, drove home... got a flat tyre, afternoon tea from the service station awaiting tyre fitter... now home, rice and tofu, and the tennis whilst I start planning EMF planetarium conversation tomorrow.

A busy weekend.

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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 05, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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After buying this book I explained to my lifelong best friend what a fursona is... She asked "how do you know these people?" Before then asking "do you have a fursona as well?"
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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 05, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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Dee in London @dee@social.treehouse.systems · Jul 05, 2026
Dee in London
@dee@social.treehouse.systems

#trans she/her #plural #poly cute things and #kindness makes a nice world to live in. lived 5 decades already, doing the elder trans thing despite starting late, in MILF territory despite not being a mother. catparent to Orphée and Persephone, listening to music (ex-industry), gaming, mucking around with Go, Rust and keeping CPUs warm (still in this industry), cycling, photography, architecture, fashion, history, philosophy, reading, astrophotography, stargazing, hiking, self-hosting... hmm, might have ADHD 👀 always tired and eepy as doing too much. when I die I will have died of being myself, of living too hard, there's so much life to live and give. if you spread love, it comes back to you many times over. open to all forms of connection, good people enrich life follow requests have a high approval rate, I really only reject blank profiles, AI profiles, techbros, and those who only have negativity and anger to share - as I don't want to contribute to that... share love, not hate. Signal: dee.73 #nobot

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Whilst I wait for the mobile tyre fitter, I think some people on fedi may appreciate this book I purchased this morning. #puppy
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