@ophis@brain.worm.pink What kind of "friends" are you people keeping!? I know very little people. The ones I do know, like my neighbours, I've known for years, and I'd say I know them well. I've lived in this house for 26 years. They raised their kids on the same cul-de-sac street as I've raised my own children. And for certain, no-one I've known has ever told me or even hinted that they might be the sort of folks you're implying. If you are "presenting male" and without saying anything other people are testing boundaries or admitting to shit, then I still think you're hanging out with the wrong kind of crowd. Turn around, and find "boring" people like myself and the other adults I know who don't sexually assault people. Not all men are bad guys. Just like not all women are bad women. (See my previous post about that.) And to somehow pretend that all women are evil because of what happened to us at school is just as misleading as the posts that claim all men are the same.