In Yud’s world, a mild, almost crunchy-granola punishment for a child amounts to denying the child’s “agenthood”. I expect that if asked, most parents who take away a toy that a child makes mischief with would say something like, “He’s got to learn the consequences of his actions”, which amounts to accepting “agenthood” now doesn’t it? I can think of ways in which parents deny the full personhood of their offspring, ways in which that is maybe even the social standard, but Yud sure has a tin ear for examples of that.