Actually it was my dad dickhole, was just trying to keep details low. I never got to come out to him as trans because I hadn’t yet entirely figured it out, its a very large regret of mine that my dad knew me only as his son. Dealing with that while taking care of an ageing mother who constantly over-works herself as the sole member of her household. Add two older siblings that decided to use their headstart to run off literally 1000s of miles away so they could throw the issue onto my plate and lock me into a town I don’t want to live in… Point being? Its been rough. And yes, some people on this planet aren’t worth the oxygen they waste. Sorry to tell ya.