What are your underrated/sleeper picks for gay music video night?

2026-03-16 02:48 UTC

Definition: “gay music video night” is a friendgroup activity wherein you and your friends rotate in choosing music videos to show one another. This often emerges organically as opposed to being planned, and as a subset of a larger hangout, e.g. as a pregame activity or winding down. The reason that it’s called “gay music video night” is that this activity/ritual is often partaken by queer male friendgroups, and for the veneration of their favourite female pop idols (though no music video is excluded here; please share whatever you wish!) Ok now that everyone has been briefed: Chrissy Chlapecka truly continues to gag me. Like her cunt level is just so powerful. She started off with Brat, which was admittedly a studio space and a dream, and still ate down And now she’s putting out incredible videos like Andromeda (which had an insane production turnaround time???) We need to be including her in the conversation. Her strap stays down my throat and her pleaser on my neck, and I thank her. Chrissanie Chlapenotta You Will Always Be Famous 😍😍😍

Replies (13)

@cerebralhawks@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2026-03-16 10:47

Not gay, but this song was always SUPER fun to sing in Rockband. Not sure if it's too on-the-nose or what, but I stand by it as an absolute banger, regardless of who you're attracted to. Electric Six - Gay Bar - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-XNFokmDKrE Maybe open with that to lighten the mood? Also, it's only about two minutes long (plus an intro). Plus, taking the piss outta Lincoln.

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@frankenswine@lemmy.world 2026-03-16 09:32

Samwell - What What https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fbGkxcY7YFU

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@Viking_Hippie@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2026-03-16 07:40

> Chrissy Chlapecka truly continues to gag me. Like her cunt level is just so powerful. > > [She started off with Brat, which was admittedly a studio space and a dream, and still ate down](https://youtu.be/4EJumoApvA0) This amount of slang that I'm unfamiliar with if not downright confused by in just a few sentences makes me feel very old, white, and cishet 😬😄 (I like it, though, in case that wasn't clear)

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@IAmYouButYouDontKnowYet@reddthat.com 2026-03-16 04:23

The boy with a thorn in his side by the smiths.

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@Noel_Skum@sh.itjust.works 2026-03-16 05:16

There’s this [absolute banger](https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=zljDDcTnTG0&list=RDzljDDcTnTG0&start_radio=1&pp=ygUbbm9ydGhlcm4gYm95cyBnaXZlIGl0IHRvIG1loAcB) you could give a listen.

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@ace_garp@lemmy.world 2026-03-16 10:30

This came to mind. [Mo-Do - Eins Zwei Polizei](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dSy2DcATYUo) It's mid 90s.

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@ThirdConsul@lemmy.zip 2026-03-17 06:06

> gay music video night It's called a kiki. Let's have a kiki: https://youtu.be/eGCD4xb-Tr8 Or a kaikai https://youtu.be/rfWeBYd7rkQ

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@asdasd201@lemmygrad.ml 2026-03-16 11:02

Miracle Man by Ozzy Osbourne

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@anon6789@lemmy.world 2026-03-16 13:45

My best friend's ex-bf was Ukrainian and he showed me music videos for Kazaky. Seemed very gay and the music was cool (synthpop/EDM) and the videos, outfits and dancing seemed really good to me. It made me think of if Lady Gaga did a collar with Rammstein.

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@NKBTN@feddit.uk 2026-03-16 16:19

Vending Machine of Love by The Stupendium. Caters for all sexualities, plus full of silly puns

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@LifeLikeLady@lemmy.world 2026-03-17 05:05

Drug by geordi keefer

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@jahayk@sh.itjust.works 2026-03-22 23:52

Do you like shoegaze? Have you heard of Man on Man? https://youtu.be/kSyPwWY23WQ

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@mistermodal@lemmy.ml 2026-03-16 04:13

[DJ Smokey – DNA Force](https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=KiJ9pyZweeI)

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