Post #589393

2026-03-08 21:25 UTC

after being rejected 100 times in a row for “ew gross i don’t associate disabled people” when after a couple dates i let them see me take a blood pressure pill (hadn’t even let them see any of my massive collection of scars except my arm and face, which i can’t exactly hide without michael jacksoning) you kind of just start making fairly accurate assumptions about the women in your society

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@Axolotl_cpp@feddit.it 2026-03-08 22:00

Wouldn’t be better to do it on the first date?

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@peoplebeproblems@midwest.social 2026-03-08 22:07

Hahahahahahahaha hahahahaha. That’s one of those easy things for me to overshare. I take half a dozen pills daily to function. If they aren’t, or at least don’t know why I take them, it ain’t gonna work. The actual like, really disabling thing about me isn’t any of the things I’m treated for. It’s my sleep disorder. I still have to show up to my 9-5. My kid still has arrival and pickup times at school. Banks are only open 9-5. I’ve found that women with treated or untreated disabilities understand this shit way more than normies. That’s not to say go look for them, but don’t try to fit into an ablist mask, that’s far more harmful

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@sveltecider@lemmy.ca 2026-03-09 02:12

Been there. Not blaming women either. Men are equally ableist.

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