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Post #50803

2025-12-11 00:08 UTC

It’s merciful but it’s incredibly difficult. What would you want someone to do for you? When you come home and your 20 year old dog is lying on the floor in a puddle of pee, poo, vomit, and blood and can’t get up it’s likely time (or past time) to help him go, but you’ll still feel terrible about it When your blind dog with liver cancer is at the date your vet thought she would pass; she still lifts her ears and wags her tail a bit when you walk in, but she also can’t hold bowel or bladder, vomits most days, and has to get carried to the yard; and you put her down a few days before you have surgery knowing you won’t be able to clean the floor or carry her for a couple of weeks, you’ll feel guilty and selfish and like you killed your dog because she was an inconvenience even though everyone tells you it was the right thing to do.

Replies (2)

  • @Maeve@kbin.earth 2025-12-11 00:28

    Damn that's heart-rending. I'm so sorry.

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  • @spittingimage@lemmy.world 2025-12-11 01:52

    I understand the guilt but the way you’ve described it, you helped your dog pass over at the point where you’d no longer be capable of keeping her comfortable. Add me to the list of people who think you did the right thing.

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