if anything you'll de-stress any of the queer people in your life who have been holding back from what they perceive as the obvious 'right' way to treat you, and are studiously treating you according to the mask you're insisting on maintaining. because yes we can fucking tell when someone is holding back from the obvious. it gets incredibly fucking obvious in some cases. which reminds me, I should remember to pack some spare estrogen for the fucking -egg- going camping with my group this weekend, in case -this- time that individual wants to actually fucking go through with it.