2026-09-29 03:18 UTC
Your thinly veiled victim blaming talking points are not as subtle as you think cowboy.
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@NuanceDemon@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2026-09-29 03:24
That’s a pretty extraordinary reading of what I said. “A traumatic experience can be real and serious without permanently defining your identity” is almost the opposite of victim blaming. I haven’t blamed anyone for being traumatised, or suggested they caused their own distress. I’m saying that we don’t need to reinforce the idea that a bad first sexual experience means something fundamental has been permanently lost or changed about them. You’re determined to collapse “this experience can be traumatic” into “therefore virginity should carry this enormous cultural significance”, but the second simply doesn’t follow from the first.