@undefined_variable@mementomori.social
Post #4393635
2026-08-05 12:21 UTC
@eoinmorris@mastodon.ie There's definitely the connection aspect there, but additionally I think for me it's a feeling that "someone's in my corner", which I think gives a bit of an extra kick there too. I rarely have anyone there, in a practical way, emotional support gets one only so far, especially if one's emotions are on totally own their own scale... :meow_nervous2:
But I do recognize that starvation. I don't connect with people easy, as oh so many people have found out (I'm sorry to those gotten dinged by that) but if I do connect, I can be a bit overwhelming, which is then confusing to people as when the connection deepens, I actually pull away and become more serious and restrained (aaaaand sorry to those who've been dinged by that).
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@eoinmorris@mastodon.ie 2026-08-05 12:38
@undefined_variable@mementomori.social I can very much relate to that and have become increasingly aware of my intensity which is mine and I own it and have discussed with others and learned the effect it can have on others. I find that I can be quiet intense when emotional, positive and negative, but at balance I am actually quiet calm and serene so I observe that in myself to manage it