why did my old friend group sometimes just get really mad at me and when I'd ask about it were like "wowww, i cant believe you even have to ask" and would never actually tell me what i did wrong and I'd end up apologizing cos i didn't want to lose my friends but i still didn't know what i was apologizing for and then a year after i started transitioning they all simultaneously cut me out of the friend group after i expressed i sometimes felt uncomfortable being the only trans person in a group of cis people