Post #4250845

2026-07-30 19:24 UTC

@SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf I'm not sure if I'm AuDHD (maybe?) I think for me it's more a case that my social transition is incomplete and mostly stalled, and nobody in my life I've come out to actually takes me seriously so I've yet to get used to referring to myself with my feminine name and pronouns, which mostly only exist online. It's the path of least resistance to continue on as I was before. It feels like a limbo I'm stuck in.

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@SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf 2026-07-30 20:39

@xorlou@lgbtqia.space hugs Didn't mean to imply you might be AuDHD, but we can recommend videos on it, in case you're curious 🫶 We're sorry to read that nobody else is taking it seriously 🥺 And we fully understand a transition feeling stalled 😔

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@jiub@not.an.evilcyberhacker.net 2026-07-30 20:08

@xorlou@lgbtqia.space @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf if it makes you feel any better, i didn't feel comfortable dressing more femme or talking about pronouns or other gender stuff with even people i was very close to until i was about 1.5 years on hrt but then it just kind of clicked suddenly and i started to feel really comfortable with all of that. before that time i felt pretty stuck ymmv of course, but i hope you get there soon! :neocat_heart:

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