Post #3566101

People arent siding with the landlord People definitely are at times, and at other times are just actively against OP for not taking abuse quietly when they are seeking support. Let me break it down with direct quotes: “[…] I had some sympathy for you up to this point. You’re just a self centered asshole that doesn’t care about other people. Your landlord sounds like an asshole too, but now I’m kind of on their side. I wouldn’t want to deal with your bullshit either.” Defending the landlord, who they view as an asshole, and simultaneously insulting the character of OP. “It’s pretty naive to assume that the landlord hasn’t documented the last several times they were forced to close your window. If I were you, I’d start looking for a place with an outdoor patio. At this point your landlord wants you gone and would probably be happy to let you out of the lease with all of the trouble you’re causing.” Defending the landlord forcibly closing the window and accusing OP of causing trouble. “Today’s forecast for Riverside, CA is high of 90F and 80% humidity. I’d want this asshole kicked to the curb if I was another renter in the house dealing with someone repeatedly opening the windows and defeating the AC. Feels like a Reddit AITA creative writing exercise for rage bait. I don’t miss it.” Person lying about the weather and saying they want OP kicked to the curb for wanting to have their window open in their closet-sized room for fresh air, for their cats to live a dignified life despite OP’s limitations in being able to find adequate room for them to live indoors, to avoid the effects of shared ventilation and lack of temperature controls (including concerns about COVID). It’s hot out, really hot out, and you are sharing an ac. Two issues here. Humidity destroys houses and it is not good if the AC is pumping full time." Person overblowing humidity concerns/damage in Riverside, California (which is a relatively dry climate compared to some areas). “I was on the fence until I saw this outburst. Now I’m pretty sure you’re a shitty tenant who’s about to get evicted. You and the landlord both are probably imperfect, and I’m not really gonna bother with too many details since I think you posted more for validation than for advice, but I think your landlord has a slam dunk case if he finds your account here with posts and comments. It could be too late, but your best bet is to delete your account, lawyer up, and stfu online about this before it builds their case against you. The judge doesn’t give a shit about you, he cares about the property owner’s property and possibly whether you’re a disruption to other tenants.” They are referencing when OP responded to a commenter who said “Do you often feel like everyone is against you no matter where you go?”, to which they replied and called them out on having a “snide chud attitude”. Which isn’t my choice of words, but it’s not a slur or a form of bigotry IMO to say that somebody has a bad attitude in a strong way, so who cares. Sometimes people have emotional outbursts to abusive comments or remarks, OP was responding to abuse. “No one cares anymore because your attitude is complete shit. Go complain somewhere else” “The good news is, we seem to have found the problem. Tge bad news is, you won’t like it.” More abuse. OP didn’t react the best, which is understandable, they are in a tough situation and facing housing insecurity. I can’t imagine what that feels like in California.