Post #3563043

2026-07-03 18:30 UTC

No, your demeanor screams that you’re emotionally immature, and I suspect that you’re likely leaving out significant details. You’re clearly not following the advice I did take the time to give, and are instead accusing me of some pretty outrageous characteristics that fly in the face of the pretty serious and intelligent advice I gave. Good luck taking this attitude to court; I’m sure the judge will see it your way. /s I hope that you’re young, because if you’re not and you still haven’t grown up past being mentally and emotionally 16, then life is not gonna get easier for you anytime soon. If you’re smelling dogshit everywhere you go, check your own shoes. Your attitude and choices are probably the cause of most of your challenges here, and you’re really not bothering to have an open mind to any answer that isn’t wildly supportive of your side. Take some time for introspection. Go to therapy. Take more vitamin D. Chill the fuck out and understand that I’m saying this shit to help you, not to win useless internet points on a platform that 99% of people don’t even know exists.

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@M1ch431@slrpnk.net 2026-07-03 19:40

You’re not helping if you say: Now I’m pretty sure you’re a shitty tenant who’s about to get evicted. You and the landlord both are probably imperfect, and I’m not really gonna bother with too many details since I think you posted more for validation than for advice, but I think your landlord has a slam dunk case if he finds your account here with posts and comments. So, you said before that don’t care about the details, yet now you say “I suspect that you’re likely leaving out significant details.” Doubting OP isn’t helping them or making their situation any better. It’s not helping them be a better tenant or to help to realistically deal with their current situation. If their landlord can’t even send a rental agreement in a legible, clear copy, and is in good faith somehow - how could they find this post? I highly doubt that the landlord could even hire a lawyer for this that could find this post for them. Even tech-savvy people don’t know about the fediverse. You are telling OP to cope in a broken system, saying they are emotionally immature, telling them to go to therapy (which they very likely can’t afford), you are loosely saying they are seeking out victimhood and bad experiences, you are telling them to introspect when they clearly are facing abuse and some level of their violation of their rights as a tenant… Your attitude and choices are probably the cause of most of your challenges here, and you’re really not bothering to have an open mind to any answer that isn’t wildly supportive of your side. Sometimes, people go their entire lives facing discrimination and a complete isolation from the people around them, even the people they pay to help them. Be the change you want to see and choose to not be someone who discriminates against them and takes the side of somebody who is being likely being completely unreasonable (unwilling to increase rate as compromise to window being open) and abusing a vulnerable person as a power play. I choose to believe people who say they’ve faced stigma, discrimination, abuse, bad experiences, and every time I am surprised to see indicators that they were in fact telling the truth. They may have even left out details. Who cares if they exaggerated a few points, or weren’t perfect. Humans don’t need to be perfect to be deserving of kindness, care, and empathy.

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@AntiOutsideAktion@lemmy.ml 2026-07-03 22:45

You appear very well rehearsed with telling people around you off for smelling dog shit.

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