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RE: https://chaosfem.tw/@CharlotteEowyn/116759834709471507 After her marriage fell apart we became really close friends, J--, a cis woman, and me. Incidentally this happened when I was in my third year of transition. At one point a few months back J-- said to me: "You have become such an important person in my life, you can't imagine. In those two years we got closer I learned more about myself from you than all my life before, thank to you for just being who you are." Indeed, cis het people could really learn a ton about themselves if they let in some queerness into their lives – alas, this might also make them question a lot of life choices and fixtures in their lives that they thought were immutable facts like natural laws. And some of them are afraid of doing that questioning. J-- isn't one of them, in the meantime she calls herself "queer by association - and proud"