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A good relationship, both romantic and platonic, should be about nourishing each other to develop and grow together. It shouldn’t rely solely on how they are for a specific moment in time because people aren’t perfect, they change, you change and the beauty of a relationship is changing for the good for each other and developing together. If the other person isn’t developing the same way as you and you’re on different paths, then it may be time to end the relationship, but to make that assessment you’ll need to understand where they’re going and why. That’s going to require talking to someone and getting to know them a bit, not dismissing them for a single sin. Again she’s fully within her rights to say fuck off to anyone who doesn’t match her standards and hold out for her true match that checks all the boxes, but if she wants to see that beautiful part of a relationship where you check off a new box together then she should give someone a chance.