Post #3347927
2026-06-11 06:20 UTC
Using AI to choose a date venue is low effort. It is not “research” and the “wrong tool.”
To spell it out, dating is about getting to know a potential partner and to let that partner get to know you. When I choose a date, I share a part of myself, a restaurant I love, a movie special to me or a cozy coffee of conversation.
To be in an art class together, a museum and coffee would have most likely been the perfect first date where the asker shows the askee some of their favorite works.
To outsource the emotional labor of a relationship, especially so early on where everything is exciting and new is not a good sign, male or female. Dr. Moose, something is wrong with you that you reacted this strongly to a quippy little post.
Replies (2)
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@drmoose@lemmy.world 2026-06-11 06:34
oh please. How is it any different from scrolling through Google Maps or whatever other research tool? To outsource the emotional labor of a relationship emotional labor? this is first date, they hardly know each other. Absurd. Dr. Moose, something is wrong with you sorry for calling out lunacy but all it takes for rational people to say nothing and allow these extremist lunatics to take over culture. And for the record I like cancel culture, I like social justice, I like ethics and responsibility but this is nothing of the like - this is just incels.
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@khaleer@sopuli.xyz 2026-06-11 07:54
Dr Moose is probably the man from mentioned art-class, deducing from his reaction 🤤